看过刘墉的一句话：
只要相信是对的，就坚持到底，就算是错也终将变成对的。
突然觉得好累好累。
是我还不够坚持？
还是我早已被它害死？
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
《男人女人》
演唱：许茹芸 阿穆隆
作词：吴克群
作曲：吴克群
（女）爱爱爱爱了几回 也明白其中滋味 付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着谁能出现
（男）伤伤伤伤了几回 也曾经为爱憔悴 爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会狠心对谁
（女）男人男人 多希望你是好人 多希望用你的真 让我不必再心疼
（男）女人女人 我答应做个好人 我答应用我一生 来换你的快乐一生
（女）爱爱爱爱了几回 也明白其中滋味 付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着谁能出现
（男）伤伤伤伤了几回 也曾经为爱憔悴 爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
（合）我却还是学不会 狠心对谁
（女）男人男人 多希望你是好人 多希望用你的真 让我不必再心疼
（男）女人女人 我答应做个好人 我答应用我一生 来换你的快乐一生
（女）男人男人 多希望你是好人 多希望用你的真 让我不必再心疼
（男）女人女人 我答应做个好人
（合）不会再让我(你)心疼 一等再等 你就是我等的那个人
（男）男人男人
（女）女人女人
（合）多么希望你是对的人
Thursday, November 20, 2008
感恩...
感恩这两个字，谁都不感觉陌生。
只是又有几人能真正做到？
有时候，感恩并不为了什么大事。
为一杯茶，为我不是一个人吃晚餐，已值得感觉高兴。
突然联想到基督徒每晚的祷告，不也带着一些些感恩的意念？
异曲同工。
只是又有几人能真正做到？
有时候，感恩并不为了什么大事。
为一杯茶，为我不是一个人吃晚餐，已值得感觉高兴。
突然联想到基督徒每晚的祷告，不也带着一些些感恩的意念？
异曲同工。
Monday, November 10, 2008
Sunday, November 9, 2008
《囍帖街》
演唱：谢安琪
作词：黄伟文
作曲：Eric Kwok
编曲：Eric Kwok
忘掉种过的花 重新的出发 放弃理想吧
别再看尘封的喜帖 你正在要搬家
筑得起人应该接受 都有日倒下
其实没有一种安稳快乐 永远也不差
就似这一区 曾经称得上 美满甲天下
但霎眼全街的单位 快要住满乌鸦
好景不会每日常在 天梯不可只往上爬
爱的人 没有一生一世吗 大概不需要害怕
（忘掉爱过的他）
当初的喜帖金箔印着那位他
裱起婚纱照那道墙及一切美丽旧年华
明日同步拆下
（忘掉有过的家）
小餐枱沙发雪柜及两份红茶
温馨的光境不过借出到期拿回吗
等不到下一代 是吗
忘掉砌过的沙 回忆的堡垒 刹那已倒下
面对这坟起的荒土 你注定学会潇洒
阶砖不会拒绝磨蚀 窗花不可幽禁落霞
有感情 就会一生一世吗 又再惋惜有用吗
（忘掉爱过的他）
当初的喜帖金箔印着那位他
裱起婚纱照那道墙及一切美丽旧年华
明日同步拆下
（忘掉有过的家）
小餐枱沙发雪柜及两份红茶
温馨的光境不过借出到期拿回吗
终须会时辰到 别怕
请放下手里那销匙 好吗
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
lucky...
Why Some People Have All The Luck
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research and over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives and had them take part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behavior are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."
This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected.
As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles.
They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a lucky person. These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck.
One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened.
The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier.
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call
就如我曾说的“一世好命”。
事实是否真的如我所想的那么幸运（好命），我不知道。
也似乎不怎么的重要，只知道我是一直这样相信着。
发现自己是越来越不快乐，渐渐的不知所措，渐渐的迷失方向...
原来，我是忘了最初的心，最原本的自己。
要秉承我一贯的游戏人生，相信自己是如此被眷顾。
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research and over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives and had them take part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behavior are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."
This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected.
As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles.
They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a lucky person. These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck.
One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened.
The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier.
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call
就如我曾说的“一世好命”。
事实是否真的如我所想的那么幸运（好命），我不知道。
也似乎不怎么的重要，只知道我是一直这样相信着。
发现自己是越来越不快乐，渐渐的不知所措，渐渐的迷失方向...
原来，我是忘了最初的心，最原本的自己。
要秉承我一贯的游戏人生，相信自己是如此被眷顾。
快乐..
一大早，我跳上一部計程車，要去台北郊區做企業內訓。因正好是尖峰時刻，沒多久車子就卡在車陣中，此時前座的司機先生開始不耐地嘆起氣來。隨口和他聊了起來：「最近生意好嗎？」
後照鏡的臉垮了下來，聲音臭臭的：「有什麼好？到處都不景氣，你想我們計程車生意會好嗎？每天十幾個時，也賺不到什麼錢，真是氣人！」嗯，顯然這不是個好話題，換個主題好了，我想，於是我說：「不過還好你的車很大很寬敞，即便是塞車，也讓人覺得很舒服？」他打斷了我的話，聲音激動了起來：「舒服個鬼！不信你來每天坐 12 個小時看看，看你還會不會覺得舒服！？」接著他的話匣子開了，抱怨政府無能、社會不公，所以人民無望。我只能安靜地聽，一點兒插嘴的機會也沒。
兩天後同一時間，我再一次跳上了計程車，再一次地要去郊區同一家企業做訓練，然而這一次，卻開啟了迥然不同的經驗。一上車，一張笑容可掬的臉龐轉了過來，伴隨的是輕快愉悅的聲音：「你好，請問要去哪？」真是難得的親切，我心中有些訝異，隨即告訴了他目的地。他笑了笑：「好，沒問題！」
然而走沒兩步，車子又在車陣中動彈不得了起來。前座的司機先生手握方向盤，開始輕鬆地吹起口哨哼起歌來，顯然今天心情不錯。於是我問：「看來你今天心情很好嘛！」他笑得露出了牙齒：「我每天都是這樣啊，每天心情都很好。」「為什麼呢？」我問：「大家不都說景氣差，工作時間長，收入都不理想嗎？」司機先生說：「沒錯，我也有家有小孩要養，所以開車時間也跟著拉長為 12個小時。不過，日子還是很開心過的，我有個祕密 ?」 他停頓了一下：「說出來先生你別生氣，好嗎？」當然好，只要是快樂的祕密，我這個念過心理學的都感興趣。
他說：「我總是換個角度來想事情。例如，我覺得出來開車，其實是客人付錢請我出來玩。像今天一早，我就碰到像你這樣的先生，花錢請我跟你到陽明山去玩，這不是很好嗎？等下到了陽明山，你去辦你的事，而現在是花季，我就正好可以順道賞賞花，抽根菸再走啦！」他繼續說：「像前幾天哦，有一對情侶去淡水看夕陽，他們下車後，我也下來喝碗魚丸湯，擠在他們旁邊看看夕陽才走，反正來都來了嘛，更何況還有人付錢呢？」 漂亮！多精采的一個祕密！
我突然意識到自己有多幸運，一早就有這份榮幸，跟前座的 EQ 高手同車出遊，真是棒極了。又能坐車，心情又開心，這樣的服務有多難得，我決定跟這位 司機 先生要電話，以後再邀他一起出遊。接過他名片的同時，他的手機鈴聲正好響起，有位老客人要去機場，原來喜歡他的不只我一位，相信這位 EQ 高手的工作態度，不但替他贏得好心情，也必定帶進許多生意。
—— 网络文章
异常精彩的快乐秘诀。不是吗？只要换个角度，带着游戏般的愉快心情，就会发现其中的大不相同。内在能量会变得强大许多，抗压应变的功力也大为增进。当然，也就心想，事成。
希望我们都是用心的人，也是有心的人。
後照鏡的臉垮了下來，聲音臭臭的：「有什麼好？到處都不景氣，你想我們計程車生意會好嗎？每天十幾個時，也賺不到什麼錢，真是氣人！」嗯，顯然這不是個好話題，換個主題好了，我想，於是我說：「不過還好你的車很大很寬敞，即便是塞車，也讓人覺得很舒服？」他打斷了我的話，聲音激動了起來：「舒服個鬼！不信你來每天坐 12 個小時看看，看你還會不會覺得舒服！？」接著他的話匣子開了，抱怨政府無能、社會不公，所以人民無望。我只能安靜地聽，一點兒插嘴的機會也沒。
兩天後同一時間，我再一次跳上了計程車，再一次地要去郊區同一家企業做訓練，然而這一次，卻開啟了迥然不同的經驗。一上車，一張笑容可掬的臉龐轉了過來，伴隨的是輕快愉悅的聲音：「你好，請問要去哪？」真是難得的親切，我心中有些訝異，隨即告訴了他目的地。他笑了笑：「好，沒問題！」
然而走沒兩步，車子又在車陣中動彈不得了起來。前座的司機先生手握方向盤，開始輕鬆地吹起口哨哼起歌來，顯然今天心情不錯。於是我問：「看來你今天心情很好嘛！」他笑得露出了牙齒：「我每天都是這樣啊，每天心情都很好。」「為什麼呢？」我問：「大家不都說景氣差，工作時間長，收入都不理想嗎？」司機先生說：「沒錯，我也有家有小孩要養，所以開車時間也跟著拉長為 12個小時。不過，日子還是很開心過的，我有個祕密 ?」 他停頓了一下：「說出來先生你別生氣，好嗎？」當然好，只要是快樂的祕密，我這個念過心理學的都感興趣。
他說：「我總是換個角度來想事情。例如，我覺得出來開車，其實是客人付錢請我出來玩。像今天一早，我就碰到像你這樣的先生，花錢請我跟你到陽明山去玩，這不是很好嗎？等下到了陽明山，你去辦你的事，而現在是花季，我就正好可以順道賞賞花，抽根菸再走啦！」他繼續說：「像前幾天哦，有一對情侶去淡水看夕陽，他們下車後，我也下來喝碗魚丸湯，擠在他們旁邊看看夕陽才走，反正來都來了嘛，更何況還有人付錢呢？」 漂亮！多精采的一個祕密！
我突然意識到自己有多幸運，一早就有這份榮幸，跟前座的 EQ 高手同車出遊，真是棒極了。又能坐車，心情又開心，這樣的服務有多難得，我決定跟這位 司機 先生要電話，以後再邀他一起出遊。接過他名片的同時，他的手機鈴聲正好響起，有位老客人要去機場，原來喜歡他的不只我一位，相信這位 EQ 高手的工作態度，不但替他贏得好心情，也必定帶進許多生意。
—— 网络文章
异常精彩的快乐秘诀。不是吗？只要换个角度，带着游戏般的愉快心情，就会发现其中的大不相同。内在能量会变得强大许多，抗压应变的功力也大为增进。当然，也就心想，事成。
希望我们都是用心的人，也是有心的人。
Monday, November 3, 2008
故人...
很高兴的一天。
仿佛又回到那段我们一起的生活的日子。
和JY他俩，似乎多了一份的生疏与客气。可庆幸的是，那信任的感觉依然。
虽然我们都没说，只是我知道这个时候的她也和我一样的彷徨吧。
说来也快三年不见PW了。逗着她的女儿，就像看见了PW第二。
真难想象，长大后的瑾涵又会是怎么样的个性模样。
在EE的大喜日子，难免让我想起那些曾经的故事，反复地在脑海重演。
这一刻，我只想送上我最衷心的祝福。
愿你们都将与另一半：执子之手，与子偕老。
仿佛又回到那段我们一起的生活的日子。
和JY他俩，似乎多了一份的生疏与客气。可庆幸的是，那信任的感觉依然。
虽然我们都没说，只是我知道这个时候的她也和我一样的彷徨吧。
说来也快三年不见PW了。逗着她的女儿，就像看见了PW第二。
真难想象，长大后的瑾涵又会是怎么样的个性模样。
在EE的大喜日子，难免让我想起那些曾经的故事，反复地在脑海重演。
这一刻，我只想送上我最衷心的祝福。
愿你们都将与另一半：执子之手，与子偕老。
近日来，开心记忆都与故人有关。
怎么我总在怀旧？是年纪大了吗？
究竟是旧时光难忘？还是现今的生活乏善可陈？
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